Sensual Yoni Massage for Ladies ONLY

Take the time to turn off your phones, turn on some music (pick soft music that isn’t something that will encourage you to sing along. You don’t want anything to take you out of the moment), light red candles and if you want to, turn on a red light (if you have one) or dim the room (it helps to make you feel relax). Make sure your space is clean and always take a hot shower before the massage begins (You may choose to shower alone, for my trusted regulars I will bath together with them as part of the massage service. For you trying it the 1st time, I will let you have some personal time on your own. I will arrive at your room when you are done with your hot shower). Once you have the space ready, it’s time to connect to your massage service provider.

 

Connecting to your masseur can be done in many ways. It can be things like taking the time to sit across from each other and drink a glass of wine, bathing together (I would suggest a hot bath before a yoni massage anyway just so you feel fresh and it will also relax you and your yoni), or you can just sit and breath together trying to match each other’s breathing or have a conversation with me (your masseur). Whatever you chose to do, it is important to make eye contact during the entire exercise. This may feel weird at first but it will get easier with time.

 

Now it’s time to move to the next step. Have you will first lay on your stomach naked. It is important that warm massage baby oil will be applied on you to calm you. This is not about sex. It’s about an erotic connection and relaxation of yourself.

 

I will sit/kneel next to you. I want you to picture that the part of your legs that are in contact with the ground are huge tree roots that dig deep into the ground and that you can feel the energy of the earth pulsing through those roots into yourself and into your masseur. I will start to massage your aching muscles, tending to your needs so that you can release those tense pressure away from your body. The massage will begins from the legs upwards. You may have to communicate with me which part of your body needs more concentration. I will be using my hands to massage your arms, legs, back (use of the right hand is important because it is linked to polarity in tantric). It is important to breathe during this ritual and I am in charge of maintaining your breath. When we feel strong emotions and/or pain we will tend to stop breathing, so it is important for me to monitor your breathing, and take a deep breath will encourage your to match your breath with mine. Feel free to make noise when you breathe out it will enhance the flow of stress/tense and sexual energy.

 

Once the massage is completed on both side of you (both front and back of your body). I will now start to touch you lightly. Rub and massage your back, neck, legs, arms, the space where the legs meet the buttocks, etc. Whenever you are ready, you can flip over and I will place one pillow under your head and one under your butt and place my hands in the same fashion as before, (it is important for me to avoid the genitals during this stage as we will move into that more when we get to the actual yoni massage). Take at a very minimum 30 minutes for you to explore your inner energy and you’re your needs.

 

Now it’s time for us to move on to the yoni massage. Also be either shaved or trimmed tight for this ritual as it allows me to work freely and it eliminates accidental pulls etc. that will take you out of the moment. By now you are lying on your back and has a pillow under your head and butt. Now you should feel safe with me, your masseur. This is extremely important for anyone that has had trauma or other things that block them from totally enjoying their sexual side. Again this is not for the sake of arousal or orgasm it is about feeling connected and safe, thus you will have to sound off your consent or sound off if you wish to stop. It is important at this stage that you must feel calm before we commence further.

Take note, no sexual intercourse will be performed, unless otherwise stated by you, the Client. Otherwise the entire massage is to help you to enjoy your sexual side.

 

Now that the oil is on, I will massage your yoni mound in circles around the labia. Focusing on the skin around the yoni on the legs etc. for now. After a while run my fingers up and down the external part of your yoni lips. Then I will move to the inner portion of her lips. I will lightly squeeze as I massage them up and down. You may become aroused but it is important to encourage you to work though it and to stay relaxed and I will monitor your breathing.

 

Now I will move on to the massaging the clitoris. Doing this in large circles moving in to small circles. Then alternate between massaging and squeezing the clitoris softly Ladies, it is important to communicate your likes etc. with me. Massage externally for at least five minutes. When you are comfortable then it is time to move on to the internal massage.

 

This may be the first time anyone has touched your yoni where it has had nothing to do with sex. So this is the time when emotions etc. could be processed. I will allow time for you to process your emotions, feelings and again breathing and eye contact is key to keeping you safe and calm.

 

Next I will insert my middle finger into her yoni slowly. I will use my other hand to lightly massage your or place it on your heart. I will encourage you to take it into you rather than me shoving it in to you. Again this is NOT about sex (Unless you have requested and have given consent). I will move my finger lightly back and forth trying to find a spongy area (your g spot or sacred spot). Once I have located it, I will slowly massage that area. This may cause feelings of having to pee. Not to worry, such feeling is normal and may differ from different people.

 

Such release of fluid is normal, it is not pee. Ejaculation may also occur, this is perfectly normal and ok. Again try and not give in to the urge to stop. It is important to let this emotional release happen. Many of my female clients have experience this for the first session and thereafter they are comfortable with it and have returned for subsequent sessions. Such experiences may occur with them may due to many circumstances which I will not narrate as it is Client-in-Confidence details which I am not allowed to disclosed.

 

I will encourage you to breathe and vary your pressure position some until it is comfortable. I will obviously have to move my hand to get to some of the positions just move my finger back to a neutral spot before adjusting. You may experience sensations such as intense emotional feelings. During the session if you wish me to connect with you using my tongue, you may wish to guide me to do it. I will take the time to reconnect to you and that same spot again. You may experience many orgasms during this time.

 

Whenever you are done, be sure to include lots of cuddle time and/or any other activity that keeps you connected. You may wish to have some time alone afterwards to relax which is o.k. too or strike a conversation to reflect on your 1st experience. Remember a good and responsible masseur will never narrate your experience online or anywhere else.

 

This is all about trust, discreet and privacy as per agreed before the massage.